so true!!!!!
The Plotter is Gemini's paranoid
shadow. He's a plotter not because he plans things against others, but
because he's convinced everyone wants something from him, and he works
out long convoluted ways of not giving it, whatever it might be. His
characteristics are chronic evasiveness and often chronic lying; and
he's also been known to deliberately try to trap you while you're
attempting to pry into his secrets, so that he can justify the fact that
he's busy hiding. This is a really difficult face of Gemini to deal
with, and it stems from his sense of emotional alienation. Because he
has a problem relating through feelings, he often can't trust; and he'll
deny even the simplest confidences to another person because he's
convinced that, if you know to much, you've got control of him. Gemini
at best is playfully evasive, and doesn't like a lot of prying and
probing. Gemini fallen into his shadowy side is extremely difficult,
because he's capable of being extremely hurtful and using the pointed
darts of his nimble tongue to shame you into silence when all you were
doing was showing interest. And when the shadow side of Gemini
surfaces, you can't take anything he says literally, because more likely
than not it's meant to be a red herring so he can go on concealing
something which he doesn't understand.
With both sides of the
Gemini shadow, the same difficulty lies at the root. It's the problem
of the opposites, and of finding a way to live them both. Gemini, when
he's lost in his divine child side can be charming but a hopeless sponge
on others' money and time. He takes for granted the fact that he's
entitled to Special Exemptions. As he gradually comes to realize that
he must also live in the world and submit himself to boundaries and
responsibilities, he grows and changes, and can bring some of his
lighthearted trust in life into everything he does, brightening the
lives of those around him. When Gemini is lost in the earthbound side,
he fears life. He often tries to analyse it to pieces in the hope that
he'll be spared from hurt, and develops a profound mistrust of other
people's motives. He loses his sparkle, and simply becomes cunning. As
he gradually discovers something worth loving inside himself, something
that makes him unique and different, he can open up a little, because
he doesn't feel so horribly vulnerable. And whether he's your local
newsagent or John F. Kennedy, another Gemini, he will have managed to
hold the bridge between two realms so that others can come across and
taste a little of both worlds.
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